Culture Shocks
Moving to a new country always comes with surprises—some charming, others a bit confusing. From mealtime schedules to siesta culture and communication styles, here are a few cultural quirks you might encounter in Castellón (and how to roll with them).
Be Prepared for Late Mealtimes
In Spain, lunch usually happens around 2-3 PM and dinner at 9-10 PM. If your kids are used to earlier meals, this can be a tough adjustment. Consider a small snack or “merienda” in the late afternoon to help bridge the gap.
Embrace the 5 Meals a Day Culture
Spain has a rhythm of five daily meals: desayuno (breakfast), almuerzo (mid-morning snack), comida (lunch), merienda (afternoon snack), and cena (dinner). It’s different from the typical three meals a day, so plan your kids’ food schedule accordingly. You’ll find that snacks are almost as important as the main meals!
Enjoy the Social Lifestyle
Spaniards love social gatherings, and kids are always included. You’ll see families out enjoying life until late in the evening. If you’re not used to your little ones being up late, you might need to ease into this lifestyle gradually.
Adjust to the Siesta and Business Hours
Don’t be surprised when shops close in the afternoon for a siesta, especially in smaller towns. They’ll reopen in the evening. Plan errands early or later in the day to avoid frustration.
Relish the Child-Friendly Attitude
Spanish society loves kids. Don’t be surprised if strangers chat with your little ones or if restaurants warmly welcome families. It can be comforting knowing your children are always accepted.
Overcome the Language Barrier
Not speaking Spanish or the local dialect (e.g., Catalan, Valencian) can make things challenging. Consider language classes or practice apps for both you and your kids—it’s a great way to learn together.
Navigate the School System
Spanish schools may have different structures and expectations for parents. Lunch is often served at school, but it can be long, so check if your school has an afternoon break. School holidays might be longer than you’re used to, so plan activities or childcare options early.
Brace Yourself for the Paperwork
Spain is known for its slow and sometimes complicated bureaucracy. You’ll need patience when registering for schools, healthcare, or any official processes. Bring snacks and activities for your kids when going to government offices!
Get Ready for Public Holidays & Festivals
Spain loves its festivals, which often involve loud, late-night celebrations. These can disrupt bedtime but also provide a wonderful cultural experience for your family. Participate when you can—it’s worth the memories!
Adapt to the Pace of Life
Life in Spain moves at a slower, more relaxed pace, and punctuality isn’t as rigid as in some other cultures. For moms used to tightly scheduled routines, this might mean learning to slow down and be flexible.